Are You Worried That No One Will Help You? (WD)

Dear Friend, I’ve heard estimates, from those who engage in such accounting practices, that the average adult has approximately 60,000 separate thoughts in a 24-hour period. Even more startling is that we think the same 60,000 thoughts today that we had yesterday and will have tomorrow. Thus, many of us go through our daily lives in a habituated pattern, endlessly repeating the same thoughts over and over again! Now let me add a bit of fuel to this firestorm. I suggest that the vast majority of those continually reiterated notions, particularly those that fall into the excuse category, are very likely untrue. It then follows that we use our incomparably brilliant minds to obliviously process false thoughts on a daily basis. Is it true? has to be the first challenge to this repetitious, habitual, and unconscious activity of making excuses. This first question will lead you to an awareness of the personal nature of your justifications. When you discover how your mind selects untrue thoughts to guide you, you’ll also reveal a major impetus to ending that habit that has held you back from so much in life. “No One Will Help Me” This excuse belongs in the blame category. Is it always someone else’s fault that you’re unable to manifest the happiness, success, and health you’d like? Do other people keep letting you down? Does it seem as if it’s next to impossible to get things done because you can’t find anybody to lend you a hand? I’m not suggesting that you’re unable to accomplish your dreams without the assistance of others; rather, I’d like you to consider the validity of the premise that there’s no one there to help you. Put this excuse to the truth test. Ask yourself if you can be 100 percent certain that there won’t be anyone out there to help you or that you’re in this all alone. If any possibility at all exists that there are people to help you, then you must reject this belief as a falsehood that you’ve chosen to use as a guidepost for your life. The fact is that there’s a limitless number of potential helpers out there, but they may be kept away from you because you keep trying to validate an incorrect belief. Revise this excuse by affirming: Whatever help I require will show up when I need it, and I trust that it is already here and on its way to help me fulfill my highest good. This kind of thinking is just as likely to be true or false as your original excuse is, so why not go with it? Such a favorable notion aligns you with how the universe truly works. There are billions of human beings on this planet, so why conclude that there’s no one to help you accomplish what you feel called upon to create? The answer lies in the blame game, which is a meme planted in your mind by others who have been plagued by mind viruses, too. It’s just as likely that aid will be there when you need it as it is that it won’t be there. So what’s the point of using precious mental energy on an excuse that’s much more likely to produce an undesirable outcome? You have the option of using that same energy to produce a desirable outcome. Shift your focus off of yourself and your ego desires and on to How may I serve? When you want for others what you’d like to have for yourself, you’ll find that there’s never a shortage of helpful, friendly, kind, understanding folks who can’t seem to do enough for you. For every act of evil, anger, hatred, or indifference in the world, there are a million acts of kindness, assistance, and love. Choose to place your attention on all that is good and be done with this falsehood: No one will help me. If you’re looking for “no one” to support you, I can guarantee you that the universe will present you with experiences mirroring your low expectations. On the other hand, if you believe that you’re aligned with supportive energy, that’s what will show up. Let go of this excuse by recognizing and reminding yourself that the belief that no one will be there for you does not hold up to the test of truth: there’s no one to blame, and there are thousands of people out there who would love to offer you the aid and guidance you desire. Choose instead to know that you live in a universe that supports you at all times.