Dear Spiritual
Partner,
Creating authentic
power requires distinguishing love from fear in yourself and
choosing love no matter what is happening inside you or what is happening
outside. Our evolution now requires us to create authentic power. The
coronavirus is teaching us how to do that. The reality of the coronavirus
is often lost in the fear of it (including denial). The reality of the
coronavirus is that no one is immune to it, and it is extremely contagious.
The mortality rate of the coronavirus is much lower than small pox or
bubonic plague, yet it is a deadly threat. That reality demands that we
bring our fears into our awareness so that we can choose
responsibly between our fears on the one hand and love on the other. This
is important because not only your health depends upon your choices, but
also the health of others.
In other words,
the coronavirus is the perfect teacher of responsibility. The
coronavirus is
contagious days before its symptoms appear in you. You do not know when you
become infected! During that time you can infect others without knowing it
and without them knowing it (because they do not know when they become
infected, either), and they can (will) very quickly infect others and on
and on and on and on. These are the things that make the coronavirus very
dangerous. It is extremely contagious, everyone can unknowingly infect
anyone else, and it can kill you. In other words, if you mindlessly
endanger yourself, you mindlessly endanger others. If others
recklessly
endanger themselves, they recklessly endanger you. To echo Lakota wisdom,
the health of one is the health of all, and the illness of one is the illness
of all.
The coronavirus
teaches us the most basic lesson about love and fear. To slow the
spread of the coronavirus I must isolate myself from you and keep a
distance. Yet these are behaviors of fear. How can I care for you and
isolate myself from you at the same time? How can I love you and keep a
distance from you at the same time? This is the contradiction that makes
the coronavirus the perfect teacher of all that is truly valuable.
There is only one alternative to all this. That is love.
Isolation requires
me to proactively love you (there is no other way of loving), for
example, calling on the phone, waving from a window, sending a text and
more with the conscious intention of love. It requires you to
proactively love me. Individuals in fear do not love accidentally. Love
requires a conscious choice when fear is present.
Do you mindlessly
distract yourself with food, television, or games in your isolation? With
obsessions, compulsions, or addictions? Are they satisfying? These are the
things that isolate you from yourself as well as from others. Do you look
for things to do that are meaningful and rewarding? When you
isolate yourself because you care about others, you make the big
choice, the most important choice, the choice you were born to make. As you
make it again and again, you move beyond the control of fear and into the
territory of love, beyond the desert of emptiness and into the ocean of meaning.
We were born to love one another. That is why it feels so good.
The coronavirus
makes all this evident. It gives all eight billion of us opportunities
to choose love instead of fear (to create authentic power) in the same
context at the same time. It is the perfect gift for an emerging
human species unlike any before. We are that species.
This is the miracle
of the coronavirus.
Love,
Gary
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