|
It is in the act of giving that we find joy, without the expectation of anything in return. Since giving and receiving are so intimately intertwined in our
lives, we often expect that we can attract abundance by simply conducting
ourselves in an openhanded fashion. Yet we find ourselves wallowing in
disappointment when our ample generosity is not met with the expected
results. The answer to this quandary lies in the expectations that, in part,
initially prompted us to give. Though our intention is likely pure, we can
unintentionally mar the beautiful experience of giving by focusing on what we
will eventually receive in return. When we let go of the notion that we
deserve to receive gifts based on giving gifts, bounty can once again flow
freely in and out of our lives. When the gifts you give are laden down with expectations, they cease to be
gifts and become units of exchange that you are, in effect, trading for some
reward. Thus, the reciprocal laws of the universe err on the side of the
giver who shares for the sake of sharing. You may have seen this simple truth
at work in your own experience, perhaps when life's busyness prevented you
from spending too much time contemplating the results your charitable actions
would ultimately have on the lives of others. It was likely then that you
received the greatest gifts in return for your kindness. If you have trouble
divesting yourself of your expectations, you may need to reflect upon the
root of your inability to act in the true spirit of giving. Each time you
make a gift, whether spiritual or tangible, ask yourself if there is
something you hope to receive in return. You may be surprised to discover
that you expect to be repaid with an easy life, financial windfalls, or
opportunities.
To integrate this most selfless form of generosity into your life, you will
have to let go of your need to be in control. Accepting that while like
inevitably attracts like, it typically does so on an unobservable timetable.
This can help you stop weighing the gifts you give against those you have
received. Giving eventually becomes a profound joy that stands alone, separate
from any and all conditions, and you will learn to appreciate the flow of
reciprocal abundance as a gift in and of itself. |
No comments:
Post a Comment