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It is important that we all find people that believe in us, just as we
believe in others. There are times in our lives when we may
find ourselves facing challenges that can seem overwhelming. The situation or
task we are struggling with seems hopeless, and it is easy to stop believing
in ourselves, our goals, and our dreams. It is during these moments that it
can be reassuring and reaffirming to turn to the people in our lives who do
believe in us, especially when we are finding it hard to believe in
ourselves. An encouraging word, a reassuring look, or hearing the words “I
believe in you” from someone who matters can help us turn our situations
around in an instant. Everybody has someone who believes in
them, whether this person is a teacher, parent, friend, loved one, or an
employer. Often their belief can wrap us in warmth, bolster us, and offer us
a supportive hand to grab onto until we can regain our own support. Having
that special person who believes in our abilities and our worth is a
wonderful gift. But when we are feeling unworthy, it may be difficult to take
in something so precious. We may even feel like we need to do it all on our
own and that we shouldn’t be asking for help. However, in letting their
belief and support impact you, you are acknowledging the part of yourself
that knows you are worthy of trust and esteem. By allowing them to believe in
you, your own belief in yourself and your abilities will start to emerge
again. Borrow their vision, and you can make it your own. If your special someone is not there to
spur you on, you also can lift yourself up with the gift of a positive image.
When you feel uncertain, you can create a vision of the future you desire
that will serve as a beacon of light. To do so, simply imagine a future that
is exactly as you’d like it to be. Imagine in detail how you feel, what you
are doing, and how others are responding to you. Make your vision as real as
possible, and allow your doubts to recede so you can focus solely on the goal
you seek. The more intently you focus on the image of what you want, your
belief in yourself will step to the forefront, making it easier for the
universe to open up a path and guide you. |
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