Creating
community is an important part of receiving the support we all need to
navigate through life. Since the modern Western lifestyle can
isolate us from one another, it is often difficult to forge meaningful
connections. Self-protection and mistrust prevent us from reaching out to
neighbors and peers, and we consequently feel like we don’t truly belong
anywhere. Yet creating community can be as simple as reaching out within our
own neighborhoods. To form the bonds that eventually solidify into long-lasting
friendships, we must first be willing to rise above the walls of suspicion
and doubt dividing us from the individuals who inhabit our neighborhood,
block, or our building. We are taught from childhood to fear those we do not
know, but community is as much a part of survival as safety. When we take a
proactive approach, we can harmoniously unite our neighbors and build a
network of support that contributes to the well-being of all involved. Your overtures of community needn’t be
complicated. If you are new to your neighborhood, sending letters of
introduction to your closest neighbors can ensure that their curiosity about
you is partly satisfied. Consider telling them a bit about yourself and how
you plan to positively contribute to your locale, even if it is something as
straightforward as planting attractive flowers in your window boxes. Or if
others have recently moved in nearby, schedule some time to welcome them to
the area. By doing so, you can calm any misgivings they have while
demonstrating that your neighborhood is a nice place to live. It is much
easier to meet people while outdoors, so try to take frequent strolls or sit
on your stoop or porch if you have one. Say hello to people who pass by, and
you will likely get to know your neighbors speedily. And one of the easiest
ways to build a sense of community is to organize neighborhood projects and
events that bring people together in service or in fun. Even if you have little in common with your
neighbors, your proximity to one another can offer a wonderful opportunity to
pursue new friendships and working relationships. You may not see eye to eye
on matters of spirituality, politics, or lifestyle issues, but each of you
understands that community helps people feel connected. As you grow to know and
then to like one another, the city or town where you reside will truly become
your home. |
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