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18 - The magic, spiritual number. ONE - The ONENESS that is ALL. All there ever was; All there ever is; All there will ever BE! (8) INFINITY - The ETERNAL PRESENT Moment. Eternity; Forever! That which was never born; never dies!
I believe God wants you to know ... ... that on this
New Year's Eve a miracle can occur. Just a few hours
until we ring out the old and ring in the new. And more--much
more--can change than simply the dates on the calendar.
You can resolve this night to change your entire
life...or any aspect of your self and your experience that you
choose. And should old
acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind? No.
Keep old friends near, and old loves dear. For
they will help you make those changes in your
life that will produce miracles, if you let them. Happy,
happy New Year! |
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We all change throughout life trying new and
different things, but the core of who we really are remains the same. |
As we bob and weave with the ebb and flow
of life our roles change, but our true self remains constant. As spiritual
beings having a human experience, we go through many aspects of humanity in
one lifetime. Living in the material world of opposites, labels, and
classifications, we often identify ourselves by the roles we play, forgetting
that these aspects shift and change throughout our lives. But when we anchor
ourselves in the truth of our being, that core of spirit within us, we can
choose to embrace the new roles as they come, knowing that they give us fresh
perspective on life and a greater understanding of the lives of others. |
It says in the beginning of the portion Vayigash, Vayigash elav Yehuda. Yehuda, the leader of the brothers of Joseph, is going to “stand up” to Joseph, meaning he is going to speak to him, or come towards him. Then, it says it gets to the point where Joseph, after all these years, can no longer hold himself back from revealing who he truly is to his brothers, therefore ending all the pain for them and their father, Jacob.
So, I want to focus on the secret of what it means that Yehuda comes towards Joseph, because it is an important understanding. The Sefat Emet says the best thing to do any time a person has an experience in which the Light of the Creator does not seem to be revealed, any time a person feels pain, challenge, or darkness, is a concept he calls lehitbatel, which means, essentially, "I receive what is happening and subjugate myself completely to it."
"Shabbat Vayigash gives us the ability to break away the walls of negativity."
What usually occurs when we find ourselves in a situation in which we feel pain from something that has happened, or is happening? We battle it. Even if it is unchangeable in the moment, we do everything we can to not accept it. However, the first thing the Sefat Emet says we have to do is understand that if it is happening, we need to completely accept it, because no matter how bad it seems, it is coming from the Light of the Creator. With this understanding, therefore, we come to see that when it says, "Yehuda comes towards," it does not actually mean that he is coming towards Joseph, but that he is, in his consciousness, coming towards the situation. Vayigash elav Yehuda means that Yehuda is coming towards, and getting close to, the Light of the Creator that is within the situation, and therefore, accepting it.
When Yehuda is standing there, he is saying, “This is a terrible situation. It seems that the worst thing has happened - Benjamin is a slave in Egypt, and my father Jacob, is going to be heartbroken and may die from this terrible situation, but I have to accept this is happening. I have to subjugate myself to this reality, and know that even though it seems crazy, this is the Light of the Creator.” And that is what is happening on Shabbat Vayigash; it is the work of consciousness of Yehuda, and ourselves, that as we come to a negative or dark situation, we bring ourselves close to it.
Vayigash elav Yehuda was not one momentary decision; it was because of all the spiritual work of consciousness that Yehuda had done. Of course, this was a moment of great pain and distress for him, yet he realized the only thing he could do to change the situation was to embrace it and bring himself closer in his consciousness knowing that it was from the Light of the Creator.
At the beginning of the portion, Yehuda is not saying anything new, and is talking to himself, rather than to Joseph, about the reality of the situation that is going to cause his father so much pain. And he accepts it. Repeating the story over and over is not something we usually do when we face something negative. Instead, we try to distance ourselves from it, not just physically, but also in our minds. We do not want to embrace it or accept it. But this is what Yehuda was doing, saying, “I accept this is what is happening. Even though it seems completely dark, even though it seems completely wrong, the Light of the Creator is here.”
And then, as Yehuda does this work to accept the reality facing him, the true essence and Light in the situation can, and does, become revealed. As such, when it says Joseph cannot hold himself back, it means that the Light can no longer be held back. It has to burst forward, and the Light within the situation has to become revealed, until eventually, the internal reality, the Light of the Creator of this situation is revealed, and all the darkness, barriers, and negativity go away.
So, what the Sefat Emet is saying, and this is really important, is that the cure for darkness is through doing this work of consciousness, because then the Light has to become revealed. When we accept the reality, and acknowledge that it is coming from the Light of the Creator, we break down all the walls and see the totality of Light and all the blessings that come from it. This is the way a person can transform every situation, but it is not easy, as it is constant internal work. If we are in a situation that is dark or challenging, the only real way out is to push our consciousness all the time, and accept and embrace the situation, rather than run away from it. Why? Because we know that within the situation, there must be the Light of the Creator. And by breaking down the wall with that consciousness again and again, the Light can no longer be held back.
That is what Shabbat Vayigash is about: the cure for every darkness, the gift of the work of consciousness that gives us the ability to break away the walls of negativity. Yes, we get the power, strength, and ability from the Light of the Creator to do this work on Shabbat Vayigash, but at the end of the day, the only ones who can reveal the barriers of darkness are ourselves . . . and the only way to do that, as we just learned, is by this fight of consciousness.
I believe God wants you to know ... ... that the method
of the enterprising is to plan with audacity and execute with
vigor. Christian Nevell
Bovee said that, and it is a valuable observation. As we
experience this holiday season, and you begin thinking
about the New Year ahead, plan with audacity. And as you move into
the New Year, execute your plans with vigor.
There is excitement in life -- but you have to put it
there. Incidentally, you
may begin executing with vigor right now. Why wait? |
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On the next rainy day, imagine the rain
washing away and cleansing your emotional body. |
There are
times when we might feel the need to wash away all of our troubles and call
forth freshness into our lives. Since perhaps the most cleansing substance on
this earth is water, we can think of the joy rain brings as an energetic
bath, rejuvenating our minds, bodies and souls. Just being able to spend a
few moments every time it rains to become aware of the healing powers water
brings to us can renew us in so many ways. As we do this we will find that
the more we appreciate the universe’s gift to us in the form of rain, the
more we can see that a gentle rain shower is a strong reflective tool that
has the ability to cleanse our entire being. |
They set me free from the pain I keep creating. They put an end to the destructive and harmful thoughts that invade my mind. They allow me to see reality—even if momentarily.
And it feels so damn good. It feels good to taste mindfulness, silence, and awareness. It actually feels great to feel a little stupid and realize that life is way simpler than we think.
We need Buddhist quotes. They remind us of our Buddha nature, which is innate, full of potential, and easy to access—if we so choose. Especially before the end of the year when fear might stand in our way, some quotes might fill us with the peace and comfort we desperately need.
The below quotes are from Buddhist writers, scholars, monks, and teachers. They’re full of wisdom and sincerity, but most of all, they’re full of love.
1. “The more we want certain situations, the more we find ourselves stuck in situations we do not want.” ~ Kelsang Gyatso
2. “There should not be any particular teaching. Teaching is in each moment.” ~ Shunryu Suzuki
3. “What’s recommended is that if you have a good experience, don’t get too excited. And if you have a bad experience, don’t mistake it for a serious deviation or a sidetrack that you have to find your way back from. If you have a bad experience, just continue practicing as you were. In other words, whatever happens, just keep looking at your mind.” ~ Thrangu Rinpoche
4. “If it’s painful, you become willing not just to endure it but also to let it awaken your heart and soften you. You learn to embrace it.” ~ Pema Chödrön
5. “According to Shakyamuni Buddha, it’s normal for human beings to be anxious, because it’s normal for human beings not to understand themselves. When you don’t understand yourself, you’re uncomfortable and scared. When you realize that you’re anxious, Buddha’s teaching is to practice being patient with it.” ~ Reb Anderson
6. “When we seek happiness through accumulation, either outside of ourselves—from other people, relationships, or material goods—or from our own self-development, we are missing the essential point. In either case we are trying to find completion. But according to Buddhism, such a strategy is doomed. Completion comes not from adding another piece to ourselves but from surrendering our ideas of perfection.” ~ Mark Epstein
7. “The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” ~ Alan Watts
8. “You ought to know how to rise above the trivialities of life, in which most people are found drowning themselves.” ~ D. T. Suzuki
9. “We must be willing to be completely ordinary people, which means accepting ourselves as we are without trying to become greater, purer, more spiritual, more insightful. If we can accept our imperfections as they are, quite ordinarily, then we can use them as part of the path. But if we try to get rid of our imperfections, then they will be enemies, obstacles on the road to our ‘self-improvement.'” ~ Chögyam Trungpa
10. “Mindfulness, by helping us notice our impulses before we act, gives us the opportunity to decide whether to act and how to act.” ~ Gil Fronsdal
11. “If one understands that the only thing that remains timeless is the richness of one’s own buddha nature, one can relax even with regard to death.” ~ Lama Ole Nydahl
12. “Learning how to love is the goal and the purpose of spiritual life—not learning how to develop psychic powers, not learning how to bow, chant, do yoga, or even meditate, but learning to love. Love is the truth. Love is the light.” ~ Surya Das
13. “We’re never called on to do what hurts. We just do what hurts out of ignorance and habit. Once we see what we’re doing, we can stop.” ~ Steve Hagen
14. “We all have the ability to study the causes of suffering and gradually to free ourselves from them…it is not the magnitude of the task that matters, it’s the magnitude of our courage.” ~ Matthieu Ricard
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I believe God wants you to know ... ... that the birth
of God's son is celebrated today. Yes, I know, you
think that Christmas is over. The day has passed. But the
birth of God's son--and God's daughter--is
celebrated every day. For every day on which a child is
born, God's Child is born. You and I are as
much God's Begotten as Jesus. And Jesus would be the
first person to tell you that. Indeed, he was a
person who told us that. The Christ is born
in all of us this day, and these are glad tidings of comfort
and joy. |
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