Your worth is not
a product of your intelligence, your talent, your looks, or how much you have
accomplished. Though much of who and what we are changes
as we journey through life, our inherent worth remains constant. While the
term self-worth is often used interchangeably with self-esteem, the two
qualities are fundamentally different. Self-esteem is the measure of how you
feel about yourself at a given moment in time. Your worth, however, is not a
product of your intelligence, your talent, your looks, your good works, or
how much you have accomplished. Rather it is an immeasurable and unchanging
manifestation of your eternal and infinite oneness with the universe. It
represents the cornerstone of the dual foundations of optimism and
self-belief. Your worth cannot be taken from you or damaged by life’s rigors,
yet it can easily be forgotten or even actively ignored. By regularly
acknowledging your self-worth, you can ensure that you never forget what an
important, beloved, and special part of the universe you are. You are born worthy — it is intertwined
with your very being. Your concept of your own self-worth is thus reinforced
by your actions. Each time you endeavor to appreciate yourself, treat
yourself kindly, define your personal boundaries, be proactive in seeing that
your needs are met, and broaden your horizons, you express your recognition
of your innate value. During those periods when you have lost sight of your
worth, you will likely feel mired in depression and insecurity, and lack of
confidence. You’ll pursue a counterfeit worth based on judgment rather than
the beauty that resides within. When you feel worthy, however, you will
accept yourself without hesitation. It is your value as an individual, who is
simultaneously interconnected with all living beings, that allows you to be
happy, confident, and motivated. Because your conception of your worth is not
based on the fulfillment of expectations, you’ll see your mistakes and
failures as just another part of life’s journey. Human beings are very much like drops of
water in an endless ocean. Our worth comes from our role as distinct
individuals, as well as our role as an integral part of something larger than
ourselves. Simply awakening to this concept can help you rediscover the
copious and awe-inspiring worth within each and every one of us. |
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