Steps 1, 2, and 3 in
Action Step One: We admitted we were powerless over others - that our lives had
become unmanageable.
“Delivery exception. Incorrect address-apartment/suite number,”
was the latest shipping company’s delivery update status for a package my
husband and I were excitedly awaiting. Dread instantly filled the pits of my
stomach, then annoyance made its way up to my chest, and then anger filled my
heart, my face, turning it I’m sure red! Isn’t it amazing how quickly we go
from one emotion to the next?
I called the shipping company and was “fit to be tied” (as my
mother would say) by the time a representative came on the line. I took a deep
breath and explained the situation. I was then told that yes, my store
confirmation listed our apartment number but the shipping label did not.
And so began my back and forth calls to the store and the
shipping company, getting absolutely nowhere. I wanted to scream!
I was about to make my fourth call to the shipping company when
I heard a calm voice in my head say: “You’ve now called both companies three
times, for a total of six calls. Their response has not changed. Shy, what is
it called when you do the same thing over and over and expect a different
result?”
“Insanity” I replied aloud to myself. I instantly remembered
Step One. This situation had become unmanageable. I had no control over the
shipping company or the store. Suddenly, with clarity, I realized I was
powerless over the situation.
Step Two: Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could
restore us to sanity.
There was only one thing I felt I could do. I prayed. I needed
restoration of my sanity.
Step Three: Made a decision to turn our will and lives over to
the care of God as we understood God.
Still on my knees, I admitted to God that this situation was
best left in His hands than mine. Doing this gave me instantaneous relief! I no
longer felt angry or anxious. I trusted God to take care of the situation. The
next day, Friday, I was amazed to see that the status update stated: “address
corrected” with a new delivery date of Monday.
On Monday I received an alert that the package was delivered,
but there was no delivery. Still trusting God to deliver (pun not intended), I
calmly called the shipping company. The package was delivered to the wrong
building. They gave me the apartment number and my husband and I hastily made
our way out the door.
I saw our package immediately!
When we got home, I shared with my husband how I used the Steps
to be less stressed. My husband nodded and said, “Yep, you were cooler than a
fan.” After a beat, we both began laughing as we stared at our new bladeless
fan.
“Keep coming back. It works if you work it. Work it ‘cause
you’re WORTH IT!”
Shy D. 9/1/21
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