Your current
comfort zone has served you, but it represents your behaviors and patterns
from your past. None of us are born with a guidebook that
provides explicit rules for thought and behavior that will enable us to
navigate life successfully. To cope with the myriad of complexities to which
all of humanity is subject, we each develop a set of habits and routines that
ground us, their continuity assuring us that life is progressing normally.
Most of us know, whether instinctively or by experience, that transformations
can be uncomfortable, but we always learn and gain so much. Any initial
discomfort we experience when expanding our comfort zones diminishes
gradually as we both become accustomed to change and begin to understand that
temporary discomfort is a small price to pay for the evolution of our soul. Your current comfort zone did, at one time,
serve a purpose in your life. But it is representative of behaviors and
patterns of thought that empowered you to cope with challenges of days past.
Now, this comfort zone does little to facilitate the growth you wish to
achieve in the present. Leaving your comfort zone behind through personal
expansion of any kind can prepare you to take the larger leaps of faith that
will, in time, help you refine your purpose. Work your way outward at your
own pace, and try not to let your discomfort interfere with your resolve.
With the passage of each well-earned triumph, you will have grown and your
comfort zone will have expanded to accommodate this evolution. Whether your comfort zone is living with
your parents, or perhaps being too shy to socialize, or maybe it’s not
realizing your spirit self—whatever it is, start small, and you will discover
that venturing beyond the limited comfort zone you now cling to is not as stressful
an experience as you imagined it might be. And the joy you feel upon
challenging yourself in this way will nearly always outweigh your discomfort.
As you continue to expand your comfort zone to include new ideas, activities,
goals, and experiences, you will see that you are capable of stimulating
change and coping with the fresh challenges that accompany it. |
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