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Allow yourself to release feeling any guilt
about being happy. Happiness is an experience we all long for
and deserve in our lives. We may wish for the happiness that comes with a
much-needed vacation or an exciting new love affair, yet when the actual
experience of happiness emerges, we may be too overcome with guilt to enjoy
it. If guilt is interfering with your ability to feel joy, you may find
relief in looking at the beliefs you hold about yourself and what it means
for you to be happy. Guilt about feeling happy can arise for
different reasons. Deep down you may believe that you don’t deserve to be
happy because you hurt someone in the past, had more than others growing up,
or maybe you received a mean comment from someone you admire. Perhaps it once
seemed that painful experiences always followed happy ones; now whenever you
begin to feel happy, you find yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Happiness may even just feel uncomfortable because you’ve gotten so used to
feeling down. The truth is that when you feel too guilty to let yourself
enjoy positive emotions, you are denying a part of yourself that has a right
to exist. By limiting your life experience to just the negative feelings, you
are cutting yourself off from the fullness of life — which includes all of
the positive emotions as well. Fortunately, you can begin to shift the way
you respond to happiness even in this moment. From now on, when happiness begins to
blossom in your heart, try to accept it, relish in it, ask it to stay. It’s
okay to feel happy even if you believe you don’t deserve it. Feeling good is
an expression of your wholeness and your connection with life. The next time
happiness appears for you, try not to feel guilty about it. Instead, welcome
your happiness in like a long-awaited friend. |
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