Many of
us find ourselves laboring under a label that has a negative connotation, but
this can be reversed. |
We live in a culture that uses labels as a
means of understanding the world and the people living in it. As a result,
many of us find ourselves laboring under labels that have a negative
connotation. Unless we can find a way to see the good in such labels, we may
feel burdened by an idea of ourselves that is not accurate. It is important
to remember that almost nothing in this world is all good or all bad. Most
everything is a complex mixture of gifts and challenges. In addition,
different cultures revere certain qualities over others, but this does not
mean that certain qualities are inherently good or bad. For example, a
culture that elevates outgoing behavior will label an introvert in a negative
way, calling them antisocial. In truth, the ability to spend time alone is
one that great artists, mystics, and visionaries share. Owning the positive
side of this label can lead us deeper into our vision and fertile
imaginations. When we look into the lives of many of the
great people in history, we find that they had quirks and eccentricities that
earned them less-than-ideal labels from the societies in which they lived.
Many famous artists and musicians were considered to be isolated loners or
disruptive troublemakers, sometimes both, yet these people altered history
and contributed an original vision or advances in our understanding of the
universe to the world. If we can remember this as we examine ourselves and
the labels people use to describe us, we can find that there is a bright side
to any characterization. If you have been labeled, remember that all
you have to do to see the positive side is to turn the label around. For
example, you may be called overly emotional, and the fact that you are
perceived this way may make you feel out of control. But also notice the
gifts of being able to feel and express your emotions, even in a world that
doesn’t always encourage that. You might begin to see yourself as brave and
open-hearted. You also may see that there are certain paths and professions
in which this is a necessary ability. As you turn your label around, the
light of your true nature shines to guide you on your way. |
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