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Our best chance of getting what we need is to communicate by converting our inner voice to our outside voice. Each of us has developed an internal filtering process that
helps us choose which parts of our constant inner monologues get voiced
outside of our heads. Sometimes the choice is based on what we consider to be
polite or appropriate, using subtlety instead of directness to try to get our
point across. Other times the choice is made based on our expectations of the
other person and what we feel they should know about us, our feelings, and
our needs. But our best chance of getting what we need is to communicate
specifically by converting our inner voice to our outside voice. This may seem unnecessary sometimes, especially when we think the other
person has the same information we ourselves are working with, but we have to
remember they also have their own inner voice, evaluating what they hear in
light of their own issues and needs. With so much to consider and sift through,
we are truly better off if we communicate precisely. Not only does doing this
minimize the chance for misinterpretation, but voicing our thoughts it is an
act of creation. We convert thought and imagination to sound, releasing it
from the chamber of our minds into the outside world. This carries energy and
intention with it, making our thoughts, wishes, and even dreams come
true.
When we have the courage to speak our minds and use our voice to send the
desires of our hearts from our inner world to the world outside, we take a
bold step in making them happen. By removing fear of what others may think
and expectation of what others should understand, we free ourselves and our
thoughts from the bondage of the mental chamber and let loose our desires onto
the canvas of the world. Next time we become aware that we have a choice
about how to communicate, we can choose to use our outside voice and watch
its creative power at work. |
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