We have all had the experience of encountering someone whose life seems so
completely different from ours that we can almost imagine we have nothing in
common. However, if we go deeper into observing, we will see that we all have
the same things going on in our lives. It is as if our different lives are in
essence the same gift, wrapped in an infinite variety of containers, wrapping
paper, ribbons, and bows. Everybody experiences loss, grief, happiness,
excitement, anger, and fear. Everyone can have money issues of one kind or
another, and everyone struggles with difficult choices.
Our lives show up differently for each one of us because we each learn in
different ways. One person may need to learn the value of money by having too
little of it, while another may need to learn by having more than enough. We
each learn about work and love, with experiences that are tailored to our
particular perspective. Even as it appears that some people have it easy
while others are in a continual state of struggle, the truth is that we are
all learning, and it is very difficult to tell, when looking only at the
exterior of a person, what's going on inside.
This is one of the many things that can be so valuable about cultivating
relationships with people from all walks of life. As we get to know those who
seem so different from us, we get to really see how much of life's challenges
and joys are universal. We begin to look beyond the packaging of skin color,
clothing preferences, and socioeconomic differences, hairstyles, and the cars
we drive to the heart of the human experience. It is important to honor and
value the differences in our packaging, but it is just as important to honor
the gift of life inside each one of us, and the fact that, no matter how
different the packaging, the gift inside is the same.
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