Our bellies can be wonderful monitors of our
emotional health, and the truth can always be found there. So often, emotions that we long to express
get stored in our bodies instead. The space where this most often happens is
in our bellies. Rather than telling people, or even ourselves, the way we
truly feel, we may stuff our true feelings deep inside of us, where they take
up space until we are ready to let them go. Stuffing our feelings in our
bellies may feel like the “safe” response, since we then don’t really have to
deal with our emotions. Yet, doing so can actually be detrimental to our
emotional well-being and physical health. One way to connect with and release your
emotions is to do a focused exercise with your stomach area. Take a moment to
center yourself with some deep breathing and quiet meditation, relaxing your
body fully and turning off the chatter in your brain. With your right hand on
your stomach, tell yourself three times: “Please reveal to me my true
emotions.” Listen for the answers. Repeat the exercise as many times as you
would like, allowing yourself to drop deeper into your body each time. Notice
any physical response in the stomach area, whether you have a warm, relaxed
feeling in the middle of your body or if you feel tight knots in response to
any emotions that do come up. You may even want to write down any answers
that come to you. Remember that the body doesn’t lie. Releasing our pent up feelings from our
bellies can prevent disease and allow us to live more authentic and
expressive lives. Sometimes, if too much emotional energy builds up inside of
us, a blowout can result that can cause discomfort. You can help to alleviate
this compression by doing the same exercise and adding sound to your
emotional release. The more guttural the sounds released through your mouth,
the more emotions you are likely letting go. Releasing your emotions from
your belly doesn’t have to be painful and hard; rather, it can be organic and
effortless. It’s important not to judge whatever comes up for you. We tend to
stuff our feelings in our bellies when we are ashamed of them or not ready to
express them. There is nothing wrong with having feelings, whatever they may
be. You can’t help your feelings; if anything, you can help yourself by
acknowledging the truth of your emotions so you can set yourself free. |
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