Your honest word is one of your most
precious and powerful possessions. Promises are easily made. Keeping them
often proves more difficult because when we are pressured to strive always
for perfection, we find it simpler to agree to undertake impossible tasks
than to say no. Likewise, there is an infinite array of circumstances that
conspire to goad us into telling falsehoods, even when we hold a great
reverence for truth. When you endeavor to consistently keep your word,
however, you protect your reputation and promote yourself as someone who can
be trusted. Though your honesty may not always endear you to others — there
will always be those who fear the truth — you can nonetheless be certain that
your integrity is never tarnished by deceit. Since frankness and sincerity
form the basis of all life-enriching relationships, your word is one of your
most precious and powerful possessions. When we promise more than we can deliver,
hide from the consequences of our actions through falsehoods, or deny our
true selves to others, we hurt those who were counting on us. We also are
hurt by the lies we tell and the promises we break. Integrity is the
foundation of civilization. As you cultivate honesty within yourself, you
will find that your honor and reliability put people at ease. Others will
feel comfortable seeking out your friendship and collaborating with you on
projects of great importance, certain that their positive expectations will
be met. If you do catch yourself in a lie, ask yourself what you wanted to
hide and why you felt you couldn’t be truthful. And if life’s surprises
prevent you from keeping your word, simply admit your error apologetically
and make amends quickly. Since the path of truth frequently
represents the more difficult journey, embarking upon it builds character.
You can harness the power of your word when you do your best to live a life
of honesty. In keeping your agreements and embodying sincerity, you prove
that you are worthy of trust and perceive values as something to be
incorporated into your daily existence. |
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