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When we willingly accept compliments, we are reminded that others see us through different eyes. Many of us find it difficult to accept compliments but easy to
believe the slightest criticism. Today, right now, let's make a choice to
fully accept compliments as we would a gift. Sincere compliments are gifts of
praise. They are kudos given for wise choices or accomplishments or perhaps
for just letting your light shine. There is no reason not to accept the gift
of a kind word, but some of us argue against them, even giving reasons why
they aren't true. If we visualize the energy of a compliment, we would see beautiful, shining,
positive energy being sent from the giver. That energy, if accepted
graciously, would brighten our personal energy field. Our gratitude then
returns to the giver as warm, fuzzy, glowing energy, completing an even
circuit of good feelings. But if we reject a compliment, what could have been
a beautiful exchange becomes awkward and uncomfortable, making it a negative
experience instead. Misplaced modesty can ruin the joy of sharing this
connection with another person. But we can accept a compliment and still be
modest by simply saying "thank you." However, if compliments are
rejected due to a lack of self-esteem, then the first step would be to start
believing good things about yourself. Try giving yourself compliments in the
mirror. Beyond the initial feelings of silliness, you will notice how good it
feels and can watch the smile it puts on your face. The next step would be to
see how it feels to give compliments to others. Notice how great you feel
when you've made another person's face brighten and how differently you feel
when the gift you've offered is rejected. Having experienced all sides, you
will be ready to play along fully and willingly.
We are our harshest critics. When we accept compliments, we are reminded that others see us through different eyes. All living beings crave positive attention, and we all deserve to have positive energy shared with us. Perhaps if we happily and gratefully accept compliments, we will give others permission to do so as well. |
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