Today’s article is all about how strong the psychic bond is with the narcissist and how crucial it is for you to do what it takes to break that bond.
I know so many of you can relate to this – it feels like there’s a black ink that’s clogging up your whole being and it’s coursing through your Inner Self. You feel like you’ve got ice shards going through your veins.
At times you feel like your Life Force is being sucked out of you, and you know that this abusive person is living inside of you. The abuse, their words and the things that happened seem to consume your entire being.
Often, you can’t even escape these horrible feelings in your sleep. You think you’ll get some reprieve then, at night the nightmares come and it all feels unthinkable and unstoppable.
This article will help you understand what this psychic infiltration is truly about and how to sever it completely and forever as I did.
Time Doesn’t Heal The Psychic Connection
Even though you might want to believe it, time doesn’t heal this psychic connection with a narcissist.
I’ve met so many people 30 years down the track who say, “They are still living on the inside of me. I’m still not free of this.” They feel that the narcissist has captured their Soul, won’t return it, and they have no idea what it is to feel ‘normal’ again.
There may be times where you feel free of it, and you think, “Oh gosh, I can breathe again. I’m finally getting on with my life.” And then, bang! Out of nowhere, it hits you again. You’re regurgitating what’s happened and it’s dragging your whole energy down. You feel like somebody stuck a hose into you and is sucking your Life Force, actually siphoning it out of you.
So what is really going on here?
It’s very important to understand that narcissistic abuse is not a practical, logical thing. It’s a spiritual, emotional, psychic phenomenon. It’s an energetic parasitical condition.
Narcissists are as a ‘no self’. They are somebody who can’t generate their own energy and Life Force, so they hook into somebody else’s Soul and suck their Life Energy from them. It’s a scary thing until you know how to address it.
You don’t need to be physically connected with this person for this to still be going on because it’s happening through the unseen world. Even if you end a relationship with a narcissist, and you separate material possessions and have no physical or verbal contact, the connection that you cannot physically or logically define is much harder to break.
Narcissists can plant their markers and infiltrate people.
Once they hook in at that energetic level, narcissists can get a feed off a person for the rest of their life. This happens even if that person has No Contact with the narcissist. That’s why the targeted person feels like they can never shake this terrible psychic disease. They feel that the narcissist is living inside them.
How To Break The Psychic Connection
So how do you break the psychic connection? The great news is that you absolutely can.
In some spiritual channels you will have heard about tie cutting. During a meditation or visualisation, you’ll focus on where you’re connected to the narcissist. This can be in your throat chakra or your heart or your solar plexus or your root chakra or wherever it is. You may do a prayer or some ceremony where you dissolve those ties and hand them back.
Tie cutting can be helpful, yet you’re only treating the symptoms by taking away those ties. You must deal with the core root of how those ties could connect and infiltrate you so they don’t reform. This means that you’re going to have to do tie cutting over and over again. This is like treating a disease as the symptoms flare but never actually curing the disease.
My Thriver work is about so much more.
It’s about curing the disease, so you are FREE of that feeling of:
* Your Life Force being sucked dry
* Your Soul being overtaken, infiltrated, poisoned and polluted
* The nightmares that you’re having about the narcissist – where you can’t even get a reprieve while you sleep
It’s about getting rid of what is actually generating your side of the magnet which allows this connection to embed in you and take place.
Healing Trauma Bonds
It all goes back to your trauma bonds.
We have traumatic beliefs and fractures within us that match the horrible stuff that the narcissist delivers. Such as … the people I love and the people I want to receive love from abuse me, invalidate me, leave me, scapegoat me, abandon me, annihilate me.
All these beliefs are within our psyche. They are the subconscious programs that come from pre-birth and are pre-cognitive. They keep repeating and mean that we’ve unconsciously been a match for a False Self.
If we are caught up in this, it’s because we haven’t yet healed to receive True Source. Which is Creation, Life Force, God, your higher power, your super conscious, your highest potential or whatever you see your higher power as.
Until we’ve cleared out the traumas separating us from True Source, we’re seeking our relief, reprieve, emancipation and Source of Self from outside of ourselves.
This is where False Selves are very clever in positioning themselves. They act like the healer of our wounds and the giver of love, approval, survival, and security in our life. They are like a parasite. They create a dependency and a trauma bond and then suck our energy out to feed their False Self.
This narcissistic infiltration is happening at the spiritual Soul psychic level. It all goes back to our trauma bonds and the previous emotional composition of our Inner Being.
How To Heal The Psychic Infiltration
Going No Contact to heal from this is not going to be enough. Tie cutting is not going to be enough. Trying to find solutions to treat the symptoms or trying to distract ourselves and get on with our life usually doesn’t work either.
This is why we think, “Well, I’m just going to get on with it and rebuild my life.” Yet, we keep falling back into this horrible psychic disease that we’re feeling inside of ourselves. We don’t have the energy and the inspiration, confidence or the capacity to move forward. Why not? Because our Life Force is getting sucked out of us. That’s why.
How do we stop our Life Force from getting sucked out of us?
By changing our inner belief system composition to no longer be a match to the person who has been able to attach themselves to us.
Then there is no more fear of being infiltrated, messed with and psychically drained or manipulated. All that becomes Not Your Reality! Your reality is: you are free to be you, rather than always being concerned about protecting yourself from others.
When you change yourself your inner belief systems and your inner composition on interpersonal relationships are no longer a match for that person.
Meaning, “I have graduated out of that density of pain and trauma to a much higher octave whereby this person energetically cannot live.” That’s what the inner Thriver healing is all about. Changing ourselves to step into a different universe where that is just not going on.
Once you clean this up, you:
* Become a source to yourself, creating your own life authentically
* You attract more of ‘who you are’ mindfully and consciously
* What is Not Your Reality is no longer a vibrational match for you, and you have no need to try to change and fix anything or anyone to make it happen
* You no longer have the fear of scarcity and you stop trying to make unmakeable deals work
* You know life supports you, and that you can vibrationally, emotionally and practically support and look after yourself, and create more of that
* You know that you are your own power source and that the narcissist is not and never was
I really hope you can feel the passion of what I’m saying, and the reason I’m very passionate about this is that the psychic infiltration nearly killed me. It was so bad and so severe that I could not eat, I could not sleep, I shook, I sweated and I had nightmares like Nightmare on Elm Street. I could barely drag myself to the kitchen to make a cup of tea.
I understand what this feels like because I’ve lived it. And I know a lot of you have had it as badly as I have or even worse.
I broke utterly free, zero PTSD, zero nightmares, zero feelings of he even exists. No obsessions, no connections and the cleanest space in myself and wellbeing, which I filled with True Source. This not only saved my life, it gave me more life, and that’s the beautiful side of this.
In Conclusion
I hope that you feel what I’m saying through the cells of your being. There is a true solution and it’s very powerful and quick. It was Quanta Freedom Healing that did that for me.
I just want to tell you quickly about Thrive, which you’ve probably heard about throughout my channels. It’s an intense Quanta Freedom Healing Bootcamp experience. I’m doing this course with a global group of incredible Thrivers who want to get free from toxic narcissists with my incredible MTE team.
Throughout the Thrive Bootcamp, I will be holding your hand and your heart and getting you out of these connections so that you can get your Soul, your sanity and your life back.
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