In the quest to create a gentler, more loving world, kindness is
the easiest tool we can use. Though it is easy to overlook opportunities to
be kind, our lives are replete with situations in which we can be helpful,
considerate, thoughtful, and friendly to loved ones and associates, as well
as strangers. The touching, selfless acts of kindness that have the most
profoundly uplifting effects are often the simplest: a word of praise, a
gentle touch, a helping hand, a gesture of courtesy, or a smile. Such small
kindnesses represent an unconditional, unrestricted form of love that we are
free to give or withhold at will. When you give the gift of kindness, whether
in the form of assistance, concern, or friendliness, your actions create a
beacon of happiness and hope that warms people's hearts.
The components of kindness are compassion, respect, and generosity. Put
simply, kindness is the conscious act of engaging others in a positive way
without asking whether those individuals deserve to be treated kindly. All
living beings thrive on kindness. A single, sincere compliment can turn a
person's entire world around. Holding a door or thanking someone who has held
a door for you can inspire others to practice politeness and make already
kind individuals feel good about their efforts. Smiling at people you meet --
even those who make you feel like frowning -- can turn a dreary encounter
into a delightful one, for both of you. Every kind act has a positive
influence on the individual who has performed said act as well as on the
recipient, regardless of whether the act is acknowledged. Kindness brings
about more kindness and slowly but surely takes a positive toll on humanity.
Weaving the thread of kindness into your everyday life can be as easy as
choosing to offer a hearty "Good morning" and "Good
night" to your coworkers or neighbors, a stranger on the street, or the
grocery store clerk. When you commit a kind act, you are momentarily
disconnected from your ego and bonded with the individual who has benefited
from your kindness. Being fully present in each moment of your life
facilitates kindness as it increases your awareness of the people around you.
You'll discover that each act of kindness you engage in makes the world, in
some small way, a better place.
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