We often come into contact with the idea that our best isn't
good enough, as if this were actually possible. If you examine this notion,
you will begin to see that it doesn't make much sense. Your best is always
good enough, because it comes from you, and you are always good enough. You
may not be able to deliver someone else's idea of the best, but the good news
is that's not your burden. You only need to fulfill your own potential, and
as long as you remain true to that calling, and always do your best to
fulfill your purpose, you don't need to expect anything more from
yourself.
It's easy to get tangled up with the idea of trying to be the best -- the
best parent, the best employee, the best child, or best friend. If we try to
be the best, we run the risk of short-circuiting our originality because we
are striving to fit into someone else's vision of success. In addition, if
everyone is striving for the same outcome, we lose out on creativity,
diversity, and visionary alternatives to the way things are done. On another
note, there is nothing wrong with wanting to improve, but examining where
this feeling comes from is important because wanting to be better than others
is our ego coming into play.
Letting go of the tendency to hold ourselves up to other people's standards,
and letting go of the belief that we need to compete and win, doesn't mean we
don't believe in doing the best job we can. We always strive to do our best,
because when we do we create a life free of regret, knowing we have performed
to the best of our ability. This allows us to feel great personal
satisfaction in all of our efforts, regardless of how others perceive the
outcome.
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