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Before we embark upon the journey of finding the relationship
that is right for us, we may want to take the opportunity to refine our
concept of who we are and our ideas of what we want from life. That way, we
are clearer on the kind of person we want to attract into our lives. Part of
the journey of finding a mate is learning how to become our own mate. When we
can learn to meet our needs without relying on someone else to complete us,
we don't have to form relationships from the space of needing our emptiness
to be filled. We can also discover our intrinsic value, separate from what
someone else might be reflecting back to us. Getting to know who we are and
learning to love ourselves creates a solid foundation of self that we can
bring to any relationship.
We are fortunate to live in a time when relationships can unfold at a pace
that is right for us and take unique forms. Friendship, dating, open
relationships, long term relationships, long distance relationships, or
committed relationships -- we are free to choose the kind of relationships
that we want. If you want to be in relationship, but haven't found the right
one for you, remember that the universe works in perfect order and,
therefore, right now your life is unfolding exactly as it is meant to be.
Maybe all this time has been part of your preparation period for meeting your
intended partner. Even the relationships in our lives that haven't worked out
as we had hoped serve us by teaching us to make better choices in our next
relationships.
Finding the relationship we want can come early or later in life. It may even
happen again and again in one lifetime. There is no right or wrong for how to
find a relationship nor is there a timeline that you have to follow. Follow
your heart, listen to your inner voice, continue to become your own soul
mate, and stay open to love. The journey of finding the right relationship
begins with being in right relationship with yourself.
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