Our lives are typically filled with noise. There are the noises from the
outside world that we cannot control, and there are the noises we allow into
our lives. These noises, from seemingly innocuous sources like the television
and radio, can actually help us avoid dealing with uncomfortable thoughts and
emotions. However, using noise as a distraction hurts more than it helps because
you are numbing yourself to what may be internally bubbling up to the surface
for you to look at and heal. Distracting yourself with talk-radio,
television, or other background noises can also prevent you from finding
closure to issues that haunt you.
Noise as a distraction can affect us in many ways. It can help you stay numb
to emotions that you don't want to feel, allow you to avoid dealing with
problems, distract you from having to think, and make it easier for you to
forget reality. Drowning out the thoughts and emotions you find uncomfortable
or overwhelming can complicate your issues because it allows them to fester.
By tuning out noise and relishing silence, you create the space to experience
and express what you are hiding. It is only then that self-exploration can
begin in earnest and you can stare down frightening issues. In silence, it
becomes easier to let your strongest feelings come forth, deal with them, and
find new ways of resolving your problems.
When you go within without the veil of noise to shield you from yourself,
you'll be able to figure out what you need to heal. Embracing silence and
introspection allows you to work through your thoughts and emotions and
transmute them. Free of the need for noise, you can accept your pain, anger,
and frustration as they come up and turn them into opportunities to
evolve.
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