Sometimes we have an experience that we don’t understand, but if we look
deeply, or wait long enough, a reason for that experience will usually reveal
itself. All the events in our lives lead to other events, and all that we
have manifested in this present moment is the result of past events and
experiences. We cannot easily tease apart the many threads that have been
woven together to create our current reality. Experiences that don’t make
sense, as well as any that we regret, are just as responsible for the good
things in our lives as the experiences we do understand or label as “good.”
This is especially important to remember at times when we feel directionless
or unsure of what to do. It is often at times like these that we take a job
or move to a place without really knowing if it’s the right thing to do. We
may ultimately end up leaving the job or the place, but often during that
time we will have met someone who becomes an important friend, or we may have
an experience that changes us in a profound way. When all the pieces of our
life don’t quite make sense, we can remember that there may be some hidden
gem of a reason that we are where we are having the experiences we are
having.
It’s fun to look back on past experiences with an eye to uncovering those
gems—the dreadful temporary job in a bland office building that introduced
you to the love of your life; the roommate you couldn’t tolerate who gave you
a book that changed your life; the time spent living in a city you didn’t
like that led you into a deeper relationship with yourself. Remembering these
past experiences can restore our faith in the present. Life is full of buried
treasures. Chances are, you’re sitting on some right now.
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