Love Enough To Help Another To Grow (EC)

You can help a soul far more by turning them within, so they learn to help themselves and do their own seeking than by handing them the answers to all their problems on a silver platter. Let them do their own searching, let them stand on their own feet. It is of far greater help to a child when you let that child make its own decisions, even if it may not always be right, at least it will learn to grow and stand on its own feet instead of always relying on someone else. It is not easy to take your hands right off and see someone make what you feel is a wrong decision, but you must learn to do it to help that soul to grow. Gently take away the outer props until they stand straight and strong by themselves seeking deep within for everything. That is love, to love enough to help another to grow in stature by turning them to the source of all power, which can be found in every soul deep within.