Sometimes it takes us the better part of a lifetime to discover our life's
work, even though we may have been doing it our whole lives without
necessarily realizing it. Our life's work is not always what we do to make
money, although we often think it should be, and sometimes this way of
thinking prevents us from seeing clearly what it is. It may be the work of
having children, caring for them, and running a household. The way we know
our life's work is by how we feel when we are doing it.
When we are doing our life's work, we feel an uncanny sense of ease and
alignment. This doesn't mean that the work is always easy, and it doesn't
mean that it's the only work we have to do; it just means that there is a
conviction deep inside us that tells us we are in tune with our innermost
self. When we are engaged in our life's work, our bodies feel more alive,
because our energy is devoted to a cause that, in turn, feeds us. We may be
tired after engaging in our life's work, but we are almost never depleted. We
feel grounded in the world, knowing that we belong here and have something
important to offer.
When we are deeply unhappy, depressed, or subject to one illness after
another, this may be due to a sense of disconnection from our life's work. At
times like these, finding the work we are meant to do is an essential act of
healing. Most of us remember a time when we felt fully engaged in some act of
work, service or creativity, and it is here that we may rediscover the work
we are meant to do now. On the other hand, it may be time to explore what
inspires us through volunteering, taking a class, going back to school, or
just doing whatever it is we long to try. We all have callings, and when we
find them, we owe it to ourselves to nurture and protect them, because while
they may or may not be our livelihood, they are the keys to our
wellbeing.
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