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When we meet someone for the first time,
we often create a defining image in our minds of who that person is. We may
also determine whether or not that someone is worth getting to know.
Sometimes when an initial interaction is particularly uncomfortable or
challenging, we can decide to close our hearts to this new acquaintance
entirely. But being too quick to judge can cause us to lose out on a
potentially wonderful, enriching relationship. First impressions don’t always
give the complete picture, so if you meet someone who leaves you less than
impressed, consider giving them a second chance. You might be pleasantly
surprised.
Everyone deserves to be given a second chance. We know from personal
experience how painful it can feel to be misunderstood or judged. We have
good hearts and want them to be seen. We have so much to offer and want
others to welcome our gifts. When someone shuts us out before they even know
who we are, it can feel frustrating, hurtful, and confusing. By giving others
a second chance, we can extend the same courtesy we would ask for ourselves.
In this way, we set a precedent for all our relationships: to allow everyone
the freedom and safety to simply be human. Whether it is a blind date, the
man sitting next to you on the airplane, or your new neighbor, everyone has a
full life outside of their interaction with you. They may be preoccupied with
a personal or business situation that affects the way they are presenting
themselves, or maybe they had a rough day or some bad news. If you give them
the room to be who they are, where they are, you will allow yourself to do
the same.
When you are considering giving someone a second chance, first check in with
your inner knowing. If you find that your intuition is advising you to keep
your distance, it is important to honor the guidance you receive. By honoring
your intuition when it has wisdom to share, you can feel confident and happy
in your decision to give others a second chance.
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