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It isn’t always easy to meet the
expectations we hold for ourselves. We may find ourselves in a situation
such as finishing a relaxing yoga class, a mindful meditation, or a
serene session of deep breathing, but we have difficulty retaining our
sense of peace. A long line at the store, slow-moving traffic, or another
stressful situation can unnerve you and leave you wondering why the
tranquility and spiritual equilibrium you cultivate is so quick to
dissipate in the face of certain stressors. You may feel guilty and angry
at yourself or even feel like a hypocrite for not being able to maintain
control after practicing being centered. However, being patient with
yourself will help you more in your soul’s journey than frustration at
your perceived lack of progress. Doing the best you can in your quest for
spiritual growth is vastly more important than striving for perfection.
Just because you are devoted to
following a spiritual path, attaining inner peace, or living a specific
ideology doesn’t mean you should expect to achieve perfection. When you
approach your personal evolution mindfully, you can experience intense
emotions, such as anger, without feeling that you have somehow failed.
Simply by being aware of what you are experiencing and recognizing that
your feelings are temporary, you have started the necessary steps to
regaining your internal balance. Accepting that difficult situations will
arise from time to time and treating your reaction to them as if they are
passing events rather than a part of who you are can help you move past
them. Practicing this form of acceptance and paying attention to your
reactions in order to learn from them will make it easier for you to
return to your center more quickly in the future.
If you are able to acknowledge what you
are feeling and that there is little you can do to affect your current
circumstances, in time, you’ll alter your reaction to challenging
circumstances. You can learn gradually to let negative thoughts come into
your mind, recognize them, and then let them go. You may never reach a
place of perfect peace, but you’ll find serenity in having done your
best.
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