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Just as our inner landscape is constantly shifting and changing in response
to the world around us, the dynamics of the families we belong to evolve over
time. When we welcome an individual into our family -- whether that
individual is human or animal -- a transformation takes place, a shift in the
energy of your family unit. The birth or adoption of a child, the
introduction of a spouse or stepparent, or the choice to bring a pet into
your home can mark a new direction in the life of the family as a whole. A
simple welcoming ritual can serve as the platform upon which every member of
the household, old and new, gathers together to joyfully mark this new phase
of family life. Encouraging every member of the family to take part in the
ritual will foster a sense of unity and help members come together to grow
into the new family paradigm as a group.
The transition from one family dynamic to another isn’t always straightforward.
The needs and desires of new members of a household may not always correspond
with those of other members of the household. It is precisely because the
introduction of a new family member can interrupt the flow of energy upon
which the family previously thrived that it is so important to respect the
change and honor the induction of the new addition. When welcoming an adult
into your family, a sand ceremony can reinforce each member’s individuality
and symbolically integrate the newest family member into the whole. During
the ceremony, parents, children, and extended relations are given sand of a
different color or texture and, one by one, pour it into a thoughtfully
chosen container. The rainbow of sand can then be displayed as a reminder of
family unanimity. To honor the introduction of a child, parents can hold a
ritual during which they formally introduce their child to the other members
of the family and invite each to speak a blessing over the child. Welcoming a
pet can be as simple as coming together in the presence of your new friend
and articulating your intention as a family to provide it with a loving and
secure atmosphere in which it can flourish.
As each family is different, you may feel more comfortable using a ritual or
ceremony of your own design to welcome the new member of your household.
However you choose to honor your new family member, know that your decision
to acknowledge the manner in which your household has grown will make the
transition a beautiful and memorable event in your family
history.
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