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Our lives are defined by the decisions
we make each day. When we choose one option over another, whether we are
selecting a restaurant or considering a cross-country move, we shape our
lives. The decision-making process can be empowering, allowing us to enjoy
the benefits of self-determination. Yet, it can also be a source of
anxiety because decisions force us to face the possibility of
dissatisfaction and inner conflict. As a result, many of us opt to avoid
making decisions by allowing others to make them for us. We consequently
turn our power over to spouses, relatives, friends, and colleagues,
granting them the stewardship of our lives that is ours by right. Though
the decisions we must make are often difficult, we grow more
self-sufficient and secure each time we trust ourselves enough to choose.
Ultimately, only you can know how the
options before you will impact your daily life and your long-term
well-being. Within you lies the power to competently weigh the advantages
and disadvantages of each selection. Even if you feel incapable of making
a decision, your inner wisdom and your intuitive mind will give you sound
counsel if you have faith in yourself. Try to come to your own
conclusions before seeking the guidance of others, and even then, treat
their suggestions as supplementary information rather than votes to be
tallied. Before making your choice, release your fear of wrong decisions.
Perceived mistakes can lead you down wonderful and unexpected paths that
expose you to life-changing insights. If you can let go of the notion
that certain choices are utterly right while others are entirely wrong,
you will be less tempted to invite others to take the reins of your
destiny.
When your choices are your own, you
will be more likely to accept and be satisfied with the outcome of those
choices. Your decisions will be a pure reflection of your desires, your
creativity, your awareness, and your power. Since you understand that you
must live with and take responsibility for your decisions, you will
likely exercise great care when coming to conclusions. As you learn to
make informed and autonomous choices, you will gain the freedom to
consciously direct the flow of your life without interference.
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