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When we meet someone for the first
time, we often create a defining image in our minds of who that person
is. We also may determine whether or not that someone is worth getting to
know. Sometimes when an initial interaction is particularly uncomfortable
or challenging, we decide to close our hearts to this new acquaintance
entirely. But being too quick to judge can cause us to lose out on a
potentially wonderful, enriching relationship. First impressions don’t
always give the complete picture, so if you meet someone who leaves you
less than impressed, consider giving them a second chance. You might be
pleasantly surprised.
Everyone deserves to be given a second
chance. We know from personal experience how painful it can feel to be
misunderstood or judged. When someone shuts us out before they even know
who we are, it can feel frustrating, hurtful, and confusing. By giving others
a second chance, we can extend the same courtesy we would ask for
ourselves. In this way, we set a precedent for all our relationships: to
allow everyone the freedom and safety to simply be human. Whether it is a
blind date, the man sitting next to you on the airplane, or your new
neighbor, everyone has a full life outside of their interaction with you.
They may be preoccupied with a personal or business situation that
affects the way they are presenting themselves, or maybe they had a rough
day or received some bad news. If you give them the room to be who they
are, where they are, you will allow yourself to do the same.
When you are considering giving someone
a second chance, first check in with your inner knowing. If you find that
your intuition is advising you to keep your distance, it is important to
honor the guidance you receive. By honoring your intuition when it has
wisdom to share, you can feel confident and happy in your decision to
give others a second chance.
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