Ascension, Setting Powerful Intentions For 2016 And My Little Bombshell

Written by Melanie Tonia Evans

It is so wonderful to be back for 2016.

I have found that so many people are reporting an upsurge of positive energy for 2106. This has been my experience as well … so many things seem to be lining up and falling into place – things that have been dreamed of for quite some time.

I know this is very consistent for the people in this Community who are doing the inner work. Meaning releasing their trauma, freeing themselves to allow in the organic wellbeing that Life truly flows though us when we live free enough of our wounds – in gratitude, purpose, love and inspiration – and detach from people and aspects that are not our True Self.

Otherwise known as “living in alignment”.

The Joy of Living as a Thriver

My own life story has incredibly reflected the results of that. Not long ago my father said these words to me … “Mel, everything in your life is becoming a fairytale. Everything you have wanted and what we hoped for you is coming true!”

It IS true … that’s how I feel when I stand back and look at how my life has unfolded and continues to do so.

The unfoldings are accelerating … the business and mission openings coming true that I only once dreamed about. Opportunities, experiences and connections that are standing with this mission and have the way forward for it.

Also … I am so excited to report that I am enjoying a new and wonderful love relationship that constitutes the healthiest, happiest and most mature relationship I have ever generated and been in. In fact so much so that for the first time in my life I have announced this relationship as “Facebook Official!”, which is how much I believe in the wholesomeness of it.

Far from fearing narc relationships before this great union developed and established, I felt incredibly sure that I was a Source to myself, that I was able to be true to me, and that there was no way I would ever again be in danger of handing my power over as a result of needing to assign someone else as my Source. No longer was I shackled with the fears of criticism, rejection, punishment or abandonment that used to hold me back from being real, speaking up, putting my best foot forward or having real, honest and necessary conversations.

I was more able than ever to be fully myself, and as a result I connected with a very special man who also is real, true and deeply engaged in personal development and growth.

These Times of Incredible Growth

My life is such a far cry from years ago when myself, my loved ones and associates all shook their heads wondering what on earth I was living. In 2012 I went through the demise of another narcissistic relationship – my second.

I was not alone. Many, many people in the Community, regardless of whether it was their first time with narcissistic abuse, or the continuation of the pattern of it, were suffering in 2012 (and around that time) the severe wake up calls, changes, tragedies, losses and having ripped away what we felt was our life.

I don’t believe this was a coincidence. You may know I write energy reports on my Facebook page and that I have an active interest in evolution, ascension and the becoming (personally and collectively) of higher,  better and healthier versions of ourselves. I believe the only way we are going to heal humanity is by the up-levelling of individuals one person at a time, and that the only power we ever have is to up-level ourselves.

I also believe we are all undergoing an incredible process of transformation and ascension. Some of us willingly and with our eyes, hearts and souls open, and others still, at this point, stuck in the woundedness of trying to make sense of it all.

For me 2013 and 2014 were healing orientation years. Years where I deeply worked at finding and releasing all the deeply embedded traumas that I realised still existed after the second narcissistic relationship. The beliefs and aspects of myself that were fearful, judgemental, powerless and limited. And by doing so I was able to transmute them into freedom, wholesomeness, powerfulness and light.

What I had known for a long time is this … when we release and uplevel the energy that was previously trapped in trauma and fear, we access the power of pure creation.

It was from this transmutation from survival into creation, that I discovered expanded incredible aspects of myself that I had never known existed. Parts that I would never have been able to access before doing these revolutionary healing shifts on myself.

2015 was for me a year of joy – socialising, fun, business development projects, great nutrition, health and work/life balance, and for the first time in my life feeling like a confident adult, with the joy of a child able to love life to the fullest. I could say “yes” to opportunities without the limitations of fear, and challenge myself to expand with excitement into new frontiers.

I have discovered that I can be a present human being living in the now – tuning out from work seriousness and no longer trapped in survival fears; thus being able to partake in fun, joy, connection and the delicious frivolity of life.

And then able, when necessary, to focus on the mission with full inspiration and allow my channel to come through me.

I enjoy travel (I recently returned from the most amazing cruise!), outings, social situations, new sporting challenges and experiences (such as wind-surfing)  …. really all the best and most that life has to offer.

Previously, as a result of narcissistic abuse, I was a chronic diagnosed “untreatable” agoraphobic person who was hiding in her home, having terrible melt downs every time I exited my house.

What a far cry from now! Today I am a “lusty life-grabber” who sees every day as a magical experience of unlimited joy. Not in a manic way – but rather in a healthy way because more and more I am becoming the most effective, relaxed and balanced person I had even know myself to be.

Purposefully Evolving Ourselves

People ask me all the time “How? How have you changed?” Especially the people who knew me personally … previously always ill at ease, trying to control the uncontrollable, fearful of “what if’s”, constantly stressed, chasing my tail and struggling in so many areas of my life … and then trying to combat all of my anxiety with incredibly compulsive obsessive behaviour – workaholism previously being a biggy.

The following I know to be the ABSOLUTE 100% reason why. The total orientation I have had for many years and still apply (as being just as important as breathing oxygen) is this:

If I have a charge of confusion, pain, any trigger at all … I go to it in my body. I track it back to its original trauma, release the false painful belief out of my being cellularly and replace it with Source healing and resolution (my True Self).

No longer do I try to work out things logically, because I know that is the hard and long way around and incredibly limited. I now know that by doing the work directly in my body (where my emotional self resides) that I then just keep growing, expanding and becoming freer and freer as my True Self.

And no longer is there the painstaking “trying to work it all out”. In stark contrast it just happens.

The process that makes this possible, Quanta Freedom Healing the core of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program is the healing system that has completely revolutionised mine and so many other people’s lives.

It is my greatest mission and passion to release and free you to this level too.

I know that you may still be suffering, and I want you to know it is never too late to turn this around, to self-partner and discover the incredible and profound ways that we can heal – truly, durably and once and for all.

I believe there is no time when this is more vital than when we have undergone the trauma of significant narcissistic abuse.

Because … as we know … this is when we feel at our most powerless, crippled and helpless.

New and Revolutionary Healing

The old victimised model is all about the intense focus on the narcissist. This is a model that I don’t endorse even though I was stuck in it originally for years.

It wasn’t helping me, it wasn’t helping the other people I was connected to who employed it. Finally, I knew there had to be another way to heal … and there is.

The Thriver Model is all about focusing on ourselves to become the force of change that we wish to experience in our Life. And this makes more than logical sense, because when we focus on anyone else who isn’t ourselves, we have no power to force them to change. We can’t control anything that isn’t us – we can’t change the narcissist – but we can certainly change, grow and develop ourselves beyond where the narcissist could affect us.

Then we understand and experience a pure energetic phenomenon of life that is absolute Quantum Law – that when we are no longer emotionally connected to any aspect of our life and no longer feeding it energy – it ceases to be in our experience.

And this is true in every case with narcissists.

The trick is we can’t actually disconnect and generate our emotional life differently until we evict the trauma out of our emotional being that keeps us emotionally connected.

Then we can – that is the key.

This is what the focus of this Community is all about – coming home to our true power and working directly on “emotion first”. It is this focus, orientation and application of healing from the inside out that has created the pure miracle of unprecedented recovery for thousands of people in this Community.

I adore how the Thriver Orientation, the Code of Conduct and the model of 100% personal responsibility enables people to get connected to their power, and ultimately generate their liberation from narcissistic abuse … for real.

This inspires me every day …

In regard to feeling inspired to the point where my heart bursts with joy – I had the absolute pleasure this morning to wake up to a list of intentions that people had shared in the 3 Keys Webinar Group.

This Group is for people workshopping through recovery, joining me in a powerful free 3 hour tele-class, and deeply learning how to self-partner, come inside and become their own force of incredible healing and resurrection.

I apologise if I share quite a few here … but my intention for you is this – that you soak this in. That these people’s intentions become your intentions, and you start to deeply feel and know that whatever your presently reality is, you do not need to continue living it.

You can turn it all around.

These were some of their stunning intentions:

“I want to fully connect to my true self, find my ‘calling’, expand my vision, create a positive and calming effect on those I share this world with, live sinfully (haha-auto correct so I left it), live mindfully, attain emotional-physical-spiritual wellness and get over my cowardice about digging deep and getting real!!”

“I want to heal my inner wounds so I can love freely without fear of abandonment or pain. I want to become my higher self so I can excel in my career and provide for myself and my family. I want to gain confidence so I can live up to my calling and help those around me with my gifts, and I want to find peace and love in relationships that reflect the new inner me. And lastly, I want to attract healthy and loving people into my life that will treat me with the respect and kindness that I deserve. I wish everyone else the same!”

“I want to free myself from the pain of my past. I want to do so much more than survive. I want wellness in the true sense of the word. I want to have the courage to go down this pathway and if I fall I want the courage to get up and go forward. I want to free myself so I can love and be loved. I want to trust my intuition again. I will strive to do my best to reach this peace in my life.”

“I would like to heal my childhood wounds so that I can move forward without pain from my marriage, learn to provide my own support and validation, to no longer fear abandonment, to be my own best friend and to love myself. I would also like to attract emotionally healthy people into my life.”

“I claim my divine right to heal all trauma from my energy field and replace it with divine love. I know that I am love, loving and loved. Also, I easily and organically manifest complete and total healing of my physical body and maintain it permanently for the duration of my stay on this planet. I now have no desire to partake in any situation, substance, person, or behavior that is not in alignment with my new energy. They simply do not exist.”

“I will heal all the wounds that keep me tied to my brokenness. To emerge from this healing as a life force who shares love, light and positive energy with all I come in contact with. I will heal the generational wounds that endanger my children’s future life potential and change my family’s path to one of higher vibration, love, light and hope.”

“I’m on this journey for a reason, he was sent into my life for a reason, I want to accept that reason and learn my lessons from it as I move forward. I want to heal my inner childhood wounds so that I am free to love myself and let true love into my life.”

“I will become whole and my most precious relationship will be the one I have with myself. I will trust in me implicitly never again allowing myself or anyone else to undervalue me. I will practise this with a gentle heart and help, support and cherish others.”

“I want to heal these deep wounds I realise more than ever I have been carrying. I now know and have confidence that through the work I’m doing on myself doors to a more enriching working life will open for me. I want the feelings of panic over the silliest things to stop torturing me. I want the endless feelings of guilt and shame to be left behind. I want and know the positive changes made through NARP can have nothing but a positive effect on the people I love most, and I want to be the most self partnered version of me I can be.”

“I want to completely heal the wounds of my past so I can live in peace, health and harmony. I want to become my higher self which is authentic and powerful. I want to always honor and protect my inner child. I want to be fully present and not in my head, during every interaction. I want to finally be over with the internal dialogue that tells me ‘something is not quite right’ and if I start to veer of my healing path, I want to be gently nudged back on the right course. That means I need to be my own best friend. And when I feel confidently healed, I want to help others reach their highest self. I want to live a life without fear and be totally free.”

“I want to wake up full of vitality and positive energy and be a beacon for others, that we can overcome illness, trauma and fear. I want to sit in a room full of people, owning my space and feel comfortable in my own skin. I want to attract well-adjusted authentic friends. I want to run with the wind in my hair and laugh at all this baggage and impending doom I carried for so long and when I finally let go I’ll jump in the air with the sun on my face and say ‘I’ve never felt this good in my whole life and I’m excited for my future!’”

“I want to heal these deep wounds once and for all and be able to get to the place when I speak about those traumas that they no longer take me there emotionally. My story can help others and they want to heal themselves as well. I want to shine light in a room and exude positivity and confidence. I want to be proud of that no matter what and I don’t have time or space for negativity that will try to dim that light in me.”

“My intention is to heal my inner child who I have ignored for so long, to accept her and all her flaws and to embrace them and all the magic that she kept hidden for so long. To free her from the dark and march her into the light. When she has come to that place she will definitely bring great things in the world, the things she came to do and she will not be held back by any lower energies as she will have built strong foundations in all her being!”

“I am ready to seek, to partner with myself, to feel, to release, to heal, to download and uplevel to a beautiful space of grace and gratitude! I am ready to dance my heart and soul into the powerful reality of who I truly am and to peacefully look back with a sense of peace, love and gratitude. For I now understand that the path I have walked, as well as the messengers along it, have been a grace filled gift, that when looked upon with awareness and love, has blessed me with the opportunity to create my very own heaven on earth! This is exactly what I am going to do! I know that I am pure love and am moving through this experience like a child with a sense of excitement, curiosity and awe. I wrap this intention up with a big fluffy hug and tie it with a giant luminous bow of love and light because life is beautiful and I am truly grateful for this experience!”

“I continue to work every day on truly loving myself and everything about me. The more I love myself, the more I can no longer and will NEVER tolerate anyone abusing me and treating me bad ever again! Thank you all so very much! With much love! Me!”

“To realize that the day I was born I was deserving of loving kindness, acceptance, tenderness, and divine love. I was enough then, and I’m enough now. I seek to be full of that love, light, and life – forever, and always. No one again has to truly get me; that I get me is enough. My intent is to heal epic wounds and memories, taking the rough edges off of them, reaching a place of forgiveness and acceptance in my heart. To up-level my wounded self, my triggers, into a place of solace. To never again abandon my little me. I seek lasting inner peace, and to reflect to the world an authentic big me, and a growing little me. There will be those who will accept me, and those who will reject me. Those that accept me will be my tribe. Those who reject me will be allowed their own divine right to find their way in the world, without me in it. I see in me a whole, integrated, divine, beautiful, deserving soul. A soul that must be treasured in self-love, with compassion, dignity, grace, and truth. Nothing else will do. This is my journey to be had, from now until the end of time. In my time, I intend to experience the kind of real love I’ve never known. To be able to give it, receive it, and most of all, to simply BE love.”

And I love how clear this one is …

“My intentions.
Be clear
Be at peace within
Be free
Know myself
Trust myself
Love myself
Heal myself
Feel worthy of love (my own and others)
Feel deserving
Feel connected with myself
Feel connected with others
Raise my vibration
Attract beautiful loving experiences.”

These people have all been significantly narcissistically abused, and they are rolling up their sleeves to get their inner work done. No longer are they subscribing to the belief that learning all about narcissists will heal them or keep the safe from them. In fact they deeply realise that every moment focused on trying to work out, change or learn all about narcissists is a moment that they are denying their own self-partnering, healing and evolution.

And I have no doubt, as I have seen with every Webinar Group, that these people will break through and start healing in incredible ways as a result of their orientations, intentions and work that they will do in the Webinar and beyond as NARP members.

(Please note if you would like to join in my next 3 Keys Webinar Group you may do so here).

What is in Store For 2016

I am so excited about what myself and the MTE team have in store for you in 2016.

This year is one of cleaning up and out the fear and pain that have no place in our future life, so that we can break free into magnificent new possibilities and expansion.

This is exciting. I really do believe the energy of “what we want” is here RIGHT now … we simply need to get the aspects of ourselves that have been limiting us to receive it, out of the way.

It’s a year where more and more of the pain and trauma can be purged and our True Lives – peace, wholeness, relief and incredible magic can begin.

The following are just some of the projects on the table for 2016.

• The development of Quanta Freedom Healing practitioner training (Many of you have been asking about this for years!)
• Interviews and events with well-known famous relationship experts
• Producing a Ted Talk
• Working on my next book
• Global Consciousness QFH Shifts to up-level the collective and our world. (This is such an exciting initiative!)
• More information regarding love creation and love relationships after narcissistic abuse. (Including how partners of people who have been narcissistically abused can better navigate the relationship.)
• And more ways for you to experience the benefits of Quanta Freedom Healing in your life.

And as always I will continue with articles, radio shows, videos and webinars packed full of free empowering and healing content.