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The journey to finding a relationship is
just that, a journey that uses all of our life wisdom and experiences. Before we embark upon the journey of
finding the relationship that is right for us, we may want to take the
opportunity to refine our concept of who we are and our ideas of what we want
from life. That way, we are clearer on the kind of person we want to attract
into our lives. Part of the journey of finding a mate is learning how to
become our own mate. When we can learn to meet our needs without relying on
someone else to complete us, we don’t have to form relationships from the
space of needing our emptiness to be filled. We can also discover our
intrinsic value, separate from what someone else might be reflecting back to
us. Getting to know who we are and learning to love ourselves creates a solid
foundation of self that we can bring to any relationship. We are fortunate to live in a time when
relationships can unfold at a pace that is right for us and take unique
forms. Friendship, dating, open relationships, long term relationships, long
distance relationships, or committed relationships — we are free to choose
the kind of relationships that we want. If you want to be in a relationship,
but haven’t found the right one for you, remember that the universe works in
perfect order and, therefore, right now your life is unfolding exactly as it
is meant to be. Maybe all this time has been part of your preparation period
for meeting your intended partner. Even the relationships in our lives that
haven’t worked out as we had hoped serve us by teaching us to make better
choices in our next relationships. Finding the relationship we want can come
early or later in life. It may even happen again and again in one lifetime.
There is no right or wrong for how to find a relationship nor is there a
timeline that you have to follow. Follow your heart, listen to your inner
voice, continue to become your own soul mate, and stay open to love. The
journey of finding the right relationship begins with being in right
relationship with yourself. |
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