On this day of your life

I believe God wants you to know ...

 ... that being "right" has nothing to do with it.

The idea that you call "right" is the idea that someone

else calls "wrong." The solution that you call "perfect"

is the solution that another calls "unworkable." The

position that you feel is unassailable is the very

position that others assail.

What will solve all of this? Not attack, that's for sure.

And not defense, either. So what is left? Simple human

love. The kind of love that says, "It doesn't matter who

is right or wrong. It only matters that you are not hurt.

And that we both can benefit. All true benefits are mutual."