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It is in the act
of giving without the expectation of anything in return that we find joy. Since giving and receiving are so
intimately intertwined in our lives, we often expect that we can attract
abundance by simply conducting ourselves in an openhanded fashion. Yet we
find ourselves wallowing in disappointment when our ample generosity is not
met with the expected results. The answer to this quandary lies in the
expectations that, in part, initially prompted us to give. Though our
intention is likely pure, we can unintentionally mar the beautiful experience
of giving by focusing on what we will eventually receive in return. When we
let go of the notion that we deserve to receive gifts based on giving gifts,
bounty can once again flow freely in and out of our lives. When the gifts you give are laden with
expectations, they cease to be gifts and become units of exchange; the
reciprocal laws of the universe err on the side of the giver who shares for
the sake of sharing. You may have seen this simple truth at work in your own
experience, perhaps when life’s busyness prevented you from spending too much
time contemplating the results your charitable actions would ultimately have
on the lives of others. It was likely then that you received the greatest
gifts in return for your kindness. If you have trouble divesting yourself of
your expectations, you may need to reflect upon the root of your inability to
act in the true spirit of giving. Each time you make a gift, whether
spiritual or tangible, ask yourself if there is something you hope to receive
in return. You may be surprised to discover that you expect to be repaid with
an easy life, financial windfalls, or opportunities. To integrate this most selfless form of
generosity into your life, you will have to let go of your need to be in
control. Giving eventually becomes a profound joy that stands alone, separate
from any and all conditions, and you will learn to appreciate the flow of
reciprocal abundance as a gift in and of itself. |
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