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If you are
experiencing divorce, look into your inner heart for guidance and surround
yourself with loving friends. Like the act of marriage that binds two
people together, divorce is the result of a life-altering decision. It is the
dissolving of a relationship that we believed would last our whole lives. We
may not even be able to articulate how we got to this place, yet we may also
feel we have no choice but to sever this tie. Whatever we feel, we need the
support of the friends and family who will stand by us no matter what we
decide. At some point, we may need to be challenged to look deeper inside
ourselves as we make this very important decision, but what we need most of
all is unconditional love and loyalty. Divorce is a process that, once in motion,
becomes difficult to stop, and this can be painful if we find ourselves
having second thoughts. We may feel that we should do more to save the
marriage, or we may wonder if there is something about ourselves that we
could fix or change instead of going through with this painful separation. On
the other hand, we may be seeing in hindsight that our marriage was truly
only meant to last for a short time so that we could learn something we
needed to know. Whatever the case, we need friends who will allow us to
linger in confusion when we don’t have the answers and who will support us
whether we find ways to reconcile and stay married or whether we walk away. Of course, the most essential ally we have
lives inside our hearts and speaks to us from within. We can trust this inner
guide to help us choose people who will support us in kind and loving ways as
we navigate the rough terrain of confusion and loss. Sometimes all we can do
is look to the horizon, remembering that we will get through this time, and
no matter what happens we will once again feel whole. |
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